Ladies-when should I tell her about my impotence? (mens views welcome too!)?

Ok...I understand how you might be embarred but you should know that your not the only man out there with this problem! Most of the time its just mind over matter. The man who thinks he is impotent, is impotent. In my opinion, if she really cares for you, she will not walk away from you. She will understand how you feel and do everything with in her power to help you! I think you should tell her when ever your ready. I dont know your situation, but maybe all you need is a woman to help charge your self esteem. I hope things turn out for the best! Good luck!!