Hubby makes decisions with his parents and doesnt involve me!?

Listen,,,firstly u have to be strong! u cant let him walk over you all the time like that and do whateva he wants otherwise he can go astray! u have to keep him in control but to a certain extent. why dont u try talking to him as he is ur husband and everyone is entitled to their own opinion, just tell him that you want to be "PART" of his family, you wanna understand him and his family more being together, just say you dont mind them coming around your home and cook them a meal so even they know that you actually care about their "Son" and "in laws" like that they might consider it and ask you next time. You have to lose something to gain something eles where, and remember family blood dilutes the water, so dont try to seperate him from them even if he doesnt agree to that just tell him that u luv him and his family and u wanna be part of it as its ur family aswell now. Gudluk and dont be angry as that wudnt help hun.. :)